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Jess Joury

RELATIONSHIP COACH

Nothing impacts your happiness more than the quality of your relationships. When you doubt yourself, relationships can feel draining or out of reach. That’s why I coach self-doubting people to feel more confident, resilient, and connected in their professional and/or romantic relationships.

Strong relationships support our mental health, resilience, and even our physical wellbeing.

In fact, the quality of our relationships is one of the strongest predictors of overall life satisfaction.

We’re often encouraged to focus on our productivity and physical health, yet we’re rarely taught how to sustain stable relationships.

If you’ve ever struggled to find your voice or set boundaries in your relationships, coaching may be able to support you.

Together, we’ll help you develop self-belief, speak up with clarity, and navigate your relationships with more confidence.

About Me

I’m a relationship coach who helps people to feel more confident and aligned in their relationships.

I am ICF-accredited with additional training in neurodiversity and relationship coaching. I blend evidence-backed coaching techniques with a nervous-system-informed approach to help you feel safer in your body and build more self-trust in your relationships. Together, we’ll address the emotional complexity of your relationships and come up with practical strategies to help you navigate them.

My clients tend to be people who think deeply, see the value in personal development, and put energy into working on themselves.

With powerful questioning and personalised strategies, my coaching has helped hundreds of people to create more satisfying relationships.

Workplace Relationships Approach

I blend powerful coaching tools with a nervous system-informed approach so you can move away from emotionally reactive patterns—and start responding with clarity, calm, and confidence in your workplace relationships.

I’ll support you to:

  • Build confidence in how you relate to others

  • Initiate difficult conversations without losing your words

  • Assert yourself during team meetings and group settings

  • Feel more confident stepping into leadership positions

  • Express yourself clearly and professionally

  • Make decisions without second-guessing yourself

  • Navigate rejection with more confidence

You’re in the right place if…

  • You struggle to speak up in meetings or group conversations

  • You constantly replay conversations in your head, fretting over whether you’ve said the wrong thing

  • You feel overwhelmed or shaky during conflict or feedback

  • You struggle to set boundaries without guilt or over-explaining

Romantic Relationships Approach

I use a nervous system-based approach to help you stop reacting from a place of flight, fight or freeze—and start responding from a place of calm and confidence.

I’ll support you to:

  • Understand conflict patterns, attachment styles and triggers

  • Build nervous system safety in all your relationships

  • Initiate tough conversations with confidence

  • Communicate clearly and set boundaries without guilt

  • Navigate rejection, sensitivity, and emotional intensity with more ease

You’re in the right place if…

  • You constantly replay conversations in your head, fretting over whether you’ve said the wrong thing

  • You feel overwhelmed and unsafe during conflicts

  • You find it difficult to set boundaries in relationships

  • You constantly second-guess yourself in relationships

  • You’ve tried many communication tips, but none feel tailored to your way of thinking

Jess is an excellent coach. She let me know exactly what would happen throughout the programme, which is a big deal for me. She helped me with my confidence and empowered me to celebrate myself. Through her coaching, I feel more confident in meetings and able to speak up clearly.
— Lisa, former client
Jess helped me to come up with better coping mechanisms for myself. Her coaching has helped me to develop self-awareness. I’ve learnt so much about myself, and I am far more outspoken and comfortable to express my opinions at work.
— Jaz, former client


I use evidence-based coaching techniques to support people to find their voice, assert themselves and develop confidence in their relationships.